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At what point do the expectations that others have for you become ‘too much?’ Who gets to schedule your energy anyway? Can you draw the line between too much and enough? A Master Certified Coach gives you some tips for the ‘how’ of it.

Could you picture your partner spending his/her day focusing all of his personal energy on you? He’d be continuously looking for feedback. He’d have set enormously high expectations for caring for you, sacrificing his own needs to care for you. does this sound exciting to you? It might work for a while, but in the long run, you’d fet bored and he’d crash from exhaustion.

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Is it really true? Do people still play ‘hard to get’? Are head games still being played to lure a man (or woman, for that matter)? It’s such a curious thing to me, and it’s got nothing to do with my age, or my gender or even that I don’t ‘date’. It’s got more to do with my surprise that, in today’s society, with so much attention to self-empowerment and personal growth, there are still people who play these games. And it makes me curious.

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Leadership doesn’t have a nice little set of rules. Everything that is promoted as a “rule” that has to be followed to become a leader can have many interpretations. In fact, the complete opposite of what the rules say can be as useful as what the original says. That is what this article is about: Contradictions that appear to be mutually exclusive, but really aren’t. These contradictions will make a better leader of you if you put them in practice:

Contradiction #1

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Relationships Rule: Although there are many ways to get a planner to take notice of you, I want to focus on only one and the most important which are relationships.

We all know that building relationships is important to any successful business so this should come as no surprise to you. I am a firm believer in building healthy and strong relationships and it has been the backbone to my own business.

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“I would rather pay your board than feed you”. This was one of my father’s ‘famous’ quotes about me and my eating habits. He had several others, but the one that really stuck was his constant reminder that “boy, you’re like a billy goat, you’ll eat anything”. Somewhere along the line, this saying evolved into my nickname of ‘goat’, that I carried with me through most of my childhood. Looking back on it, his characterization seemed quite appropriate especially in light of his trying to feed five children on a working man’s wages when one ate like five himself. I was reminded of this by my brother recently, as this lead into a rather lengthy discussion of the various names we had back during our childhood days. The odd thing is how many of them still seem appropriate today!

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